I'm jealous of my girlfriend because she has her life together and never has any problems like when getting a job she got it straight away while I've been struggling for a while and still am. I get jealous and upset over everything she does because she has her life sorted out and I don't and struggle to do so. Another example is when she goes out and has a good time then comes back and tells me all about it, I struggle to get out and see friends and do stuff because of work so when she tells me about it I get upset with her. I don't know what to do about it and whether it is me getting too clingy or possessive.
I'm jealous of my girlfriend because she gets everything she wants while I struggle, what do I do?
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- 3+ months ago by Chloe_Love
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- life, girlfriend, straight, away, together, job, struggle, problem, everything
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Just out of curiosity what are you getting from this relationship? What is the point of having it? Everything she does annoys you. You're jealous of everything she does so what exactly is the reason to have this relationship? How does it benefit you to have it?
Seems to me you've made the relationship a competition and you have to better her in everything or you feel like a loser.
Step away, have your own life, live it and like it. Stop disliking it because it does not match hers. Good luck!