I've known (let's call one S and the other D) S for two years and I know I love her but since I met her friend D I've started to fall for her and now I don't know what to do. I've never slept with either of them and their both my best friends and I'm just confused :(
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You love neither girl. You are just horney. If you had to chose which one to date, go for the more insecure one so that way she will be more grateful for the relationship, but be prepared to lose the other as a friend and eventually not have either as a friend. You can not love two girls at same time, especially since you have not dated either.
Don' t be confused you are not in true love but you are liking them surfacely, lightly....call it affection. Had you truely loved S you'd never divert towards D or any other and vice versa. You are now in quandary as to which one you love much or is it just affection. It's now your homework to sort out to whom you feel attracted more and what feelings of those two girls are toward you.
Be patient..Take some times..Stop contacts with them for some days..& see that who is trying to contact with you more..who take care of you..& who is in your mind more..sometimes when we talk with each other rapidly..a likeness grows there..but its not love..it stay for a while..
Invite both to your house on opposite days and see which one makes you happier(: And if one makes you happier than the other, most likely choose the one that you mainly argue with because to be honest that's the girl you really will be thinking about because of how annoying she is and how you will miss her . I know it sounds weird but its worth your troubles(: good luck (:
Okay whoever S is you probably like and know more. You just met D so you don't really know if she's the one for sure.... You were probably just blinded if she was pretty or something. But if that doesn't work try asking them if they like you so if one of them doesn't like you then the other one is the right one. God bless you hope this helps!!
Appearance doesn't matter about them... And I'm very pro "not killing"