Heres the thing, she's been my friend for 5 years, and for this whole time, I can.say in the back of my head, Ive loved her. I cant stop thinking about her, shes beautiful, shes strong, she has an incredible motherly instinct, she's around all the time, when she comes over she stays for days at a time si that she can hang out with me and all of my friends, Ive told her twice that I love her, and she didnt really respond, I love her so much, and I want her to love me... Please, I need help.
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first, be patient. i know thats hard to hear but she is probably sorting out her feelings and doing the pros and cons of starting a new kind of relationship with you....once you tell her how you feel, sit back and hope for the best.this happened to me, i was the girl having to sort out my feelings and determine whether or not to change the ascpects of a friendship into a a loving relationship....second, dont give up...she might not be ready, right now. feelings change and so do any kind of relationship, they evolve...and maybe into something better. keep telling her she's beautiful and that you love her.she'll come around. i did, now im engaged to my best friend...good luck, i hope i helped.
