iv been friends with this guy since forever, but about three years ago i started to fall for him. i know he's gay + iv even helped him find boyfriends + solve his love issues. however we recently found out that he might have cancer or another life changing illness. i don't know wot 2 do. i stand by him. i look after him. hes a player. hes gay + he takes out all his problems on every1 else. but i cant help but love him iv tried getting over him but it isnt working. should i confess? or jus suffer in silence?