ok there are a few problems here. 1. i know she likes me, and the whole school practically knows i like her, her friends are constantly sayin i should ask her out. 2. she has never actually dated someone before, she says im the only one besides family to compliment her on everything about her. she calls me sweet, nice, and ive heard from friends she thinks im cute and funny. 3. i have dated a few girls before, mainly because i was desperate. but i had no feelings for them. its different with abby, i actually LIKE her, alot. its weird, i get really hot and start turning red and get real nervous when she talks directly to me. 4. she gives mixed feelings, i know she sees me looking at her, smiling, and even smaller signs than those. but she isnt consistent on the way she reacts, sometimes she'll give me her great smile, othertimes she'll just walk down the hall(we'll walk in opposite directions, close enough to bump shoulders, for this thing i noticed next) and when she gets about 2 feet in front of me, when she would usually smile at me, yawn enough to cover her eyes then mess with her hair until shes past me. 5. i have absolutely no confidence in striking up a conversation with Abby. 6. she is russian, and knows quite a bit of it. so i bought a cheaper version of rosetta stone to learn enough russian to impress her in russian conversation. 7. she hangs out with girls AND alot of guys, which i will say makes me jealous, and mad cause anytime she is alone walking down the hall, when id be able to go up to her and talk to her, one of her guy friends(by the way, her guy friends do not like me and in fact used to beat me up before i played football) will start talking to her and i get so mad. PLEASE HELP ME I WANT TO MAKE HER MINE BEFORE SCHOOLS OVER!!
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what i can basically say to you is if she really does approach you and talk to you when u are or are with people and you don't do the same for her then you are starting off wrong this makes girls mad espically if they like you so the first step is to talk to her no matter who she is don't act so desperate just act like your self also stop trying to learn russian or what ever she speaks if she can't accept u for who u are f her after you talk to her a few times on the one on one start talking to her more and you feel comfortable start thinking about asking her to go to the movies or something you don't have to say it's a date or anything the most crucial thing is to get her phone number and start talkig to her outside of school u will see a big change with that to try this and see what happens with u and her
It would be a good idea to have some common friends too ;) Not best friends forever, just so you feel comfortable around them, and if not that just seek an opportunity to be alone with her - it can be walking her home or to the bus stop, casually asking her to join you to go smwhere or whatever really. And since you feel more comfortable chatting with her online - just ask her out that way, it doesn;t seam too nerdy :p Just, as someone said before, don;t make it a romantic date, just get together and do something fun (maybe meet with her and some friend of yours that knows how you feel and would be nice enough to leave early :p) then you will find actually asking her out less intimidating
Good luck!
Im in 7th grade too, i really like this girl Hannah and i know she likes me back. I wanna ask her out really bad because school ends in a couple months but im afraid that she will say no. But im wierd and if she says no i wont be able to talk to her without feeling embarrised. If it works out for ya, please let me know. Thank you.
Would this Hannah's last name be Springfield?
thanks for the info, i already talk with her on facebook when shes online. the problem is i punk out when i see her at school with her friends.