So there's this popular guy at my school and he told this girl that he thinks I'm annoying and an LG so then she told one of my friends and then my friend told me. So I wanted to know if e actually said it so I asked him and he said no who told u that and I was just like Rebecca and Hannah. So then Rebecca and Hannah got mad at me for telling him because they both used to like him and don't want thin to think badly of them. Then they both started to ignore me so I was stuck hanging out with one of my friends and she asked me if I thought Rebecca was a drama queen and I said no then she asked the person sitting beside us and she said sometimes so then that girl told Rebecca that we thought she was a drama queen. So then Hannah comes up to me and says if u think I don't like u because u like Jason ( the guy that I like right now and also the guy that Hannah likes ) well ur wrong because I don't like u because ur an LG and also lie a lot so then I said to her that I don't like Jason because I wanted her to like me. So then she said that that was bull shit... And then walked away. After school I told my friend to talk to Hannah so I gave her Hannah's snapchat user name. And I also talked to Rebecca and explained everything so now where cool . So then I asked my friend if she talked to Hannah and she said yes and she's very nice and cool I don't get why u hate her and she also said that she forgot what I wanted her to tell Hannah so they just started talking about random shit. Then that's when I decided to take matters into my own hand and I talked to Hannah on snapchat and told her that I didn't call Rebecca a drama queen and yeahhhh that kind of stuff and then I said that I was telling the truth and that se can believe what she wants and then after she replied saying hahaha fuck u. Then that's when I told my mom what was happening and she askied if I wanted her to do anything and I said no . But I honestly just want this to be over how do I get it to stop?
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You're being too soft, you know... I'm not saying that it's a bad thing, even I used to be and still sometimes am like that.. The problem is, people like us care too much about the feelings of others, and although it is a really rare and nice quality, it often backfires on us... Your friends might mean a lot to you, but that doesn't mean that you will have to give in to their super shitty behaviour.. Especially that Hannah... She's just making false claims about how you're a backstabber, and why you hate her just because you two have the same crush, blah blah blah... But you know that these all are just big, fat lies and she's clearly trying to discourage you and make others hate you... So, I suggest that the next time you see her, just confront her boldly and try to explain it to her one more time and if she still acts mean, then drop that matter and act like you don't care.... Just act confidently, cause she is the one at fault here and besides, you know you are right, and you don't need to prove that to anyone. You are one great person worth knowing, and if Hannah doesn't want to be friends with you, then it's her bad..... Become a brick wall, you know you're right, so even if people are bullying you, just ignore it... If a person bullies you, thats probably because they're jealous of you... Lastly, be a tigress, conduct yourself with confidence and self respect.. Show all the people, that you're strong and independent, and that they don't have any right to judge you or use your friendship.. I am absolutely confident that your are one free, independent person to be scared of, and I'm sure that you'll be able to handle this situation in just the right manner....:)
I think it's really nasty once you're trapped in this whole gossip thing and people just put words into your mouth anyhow because it doesn't really affect them. Forgive them because some people just don't consider others' feelings before they say shit about them and they don't know what they are doing. Be the bigger person and look past the matter, don't speak a negative thing about them as they are not worth your time and you don't deserve to feel the way you do. No one deserves to be treated badly. To clear the air once and for all, you can start a nice conversation with them and explain the things that you didn't do, try to let them understand that you're completely honest and why would you not tell the truth right? It's not like there's anything you can get out of it. If they do not understand and constantly fall back to false assumptions, then it's their lost. Whatever it is, keep your head held high and be positive :-) Surround yourself with positive people, people that make you happy, people that help you grow as a person. Forgive them and give them time, They will soon come to their senses and get over it :-) All the best!
Yes thank you... The thing is that I told one of my friends that I told my mom about hannah and my friend told Hannah that so know she's talking even more shit about me :(