... I am. (I'm 22 he's 59). I've dated a 36 year old that seemed much much older than him even though the 59 year old has 3 daughters all in their 20s. We've both made it apparent we are into each other but he's never been a creep at all. We met through my job - I work at a gym deli and he started coming in the winter (he's a regular during this time). Usually he comes an hour before I close and talks to me and then once im off I've ended up hanging out with him for four more hours on four separate occasions. Today I didn't work, but was at the gym, and we sat and talked for eight hours. We never have a pausing moment and we talk about a variety of things - from crazy stories to politics (im a legal studies major). I can't find any info about this big of an age difference. It's not about his status or money... He doesn't have a lot of money and he's a minimalist that lives on his own. But something about him just draws me to him. How should I go about starting a sexual relationship with him? It should be noted that even though he goes to
My work I know it wouldn't be awkward to see him or effect m work performance because i can handle it... I've had a few situations where I dated people at my work/knew I would see them at work and it wasn't hard... Maybe because I'm outgoing and can get over it? Thanks!
I'm genuinely interested in a sexual friendship/relationship with a man that is 37 years older than?
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- 3+ months ago by emilydoggs
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- man, sex, year, friendship, relationship, older, old, years, sexual, relationships
Responses (9)
well if you are interested in dating him and you are interested in having a sexual relationship with him have you discuss this with him and you have a age thing with his daughters how do they feel about it thats something i would like to know if they have any issues with it cause that could be a barrier in the whole thing if they have a problems with the idea about you dating their dad i would discuss this openly with him sometimes it doesn't matter what a son or daughter think but it could lead to problems if they didn't like the idea
age means nothing when it comes to love and relationships. im 25 and my bf is 40, i dont see it as an issue. we have had a few problems with family and friends judging us because of the difference but in the end its nothing to do with anyone else, just the 2 of you. give it a go and see what happens. it will be worth it in the long run x
As a 54 year old guy who had a 6 month full relationship with an 18 year gal who worked for me i say go with the flow , not all relationships work with any ages and its just about getting on and having good times , im sure he will treat you fantastic and will probably be intense very considerate sex , and hell probably be lot less hassle than a young guy , have fun ,,
When I was in my 20s I had a relationship with a woman in her 50s. It was a beautiful and happy relationship. We parted because she felt I should find someone closer to my age to have children with. I subsequently married someone close to my age and raised a family but it was not a happy relationship and we eventually divorced. I now think that you should be with the person you truly love and truly want to be with whatever age they are
you may feel, and may be, compatible adults; in private conversation you may 'click' but in public you will be treated terrible. Consider it, are you ready for abuse when you walk together on the street? People make snap judgment, and you will get judged hard by public. please, make sure your feeling is strong, or you may get hurt. Good luck!
