Hello,
I'm a guy, 17 years old, and I have a "problem". I want to find my style, but I have a problem. I can't decide whether to be feminine or masculine. I mean, my style needs to have some kind of "direction" towards being a feminine guy or a masculine guy. Some facts about me:
I'm 6 feet 1/2 (masculine)
I'm 150lbs (feminine)
I have a deep voice (masculine)
I have long hair (feminine)
I'm working out (masculine)
I am naturally really weak (feminine)
I also look quite young for my age, despite my height and voice.
and so on...
I'm really a mixed type of person on this matter....and I don't know in which direction to go. The western beauty ideal tells me to work out, cut my hair, and get heavier / look older. Asian beauty ideals would say it's better to stay thin / in shape, and to wear longer hair / look a bit more feminine and young / not to look too masculine. Which ideal should I follow?
