I don't know where to begin. It just feels like everything is wrong right now. This girl stole my best friend and changed her into someone who I don't even know anymore. She's kind of mean to me but we were really close friends before she made new friends. We barely even talk anymore; I wouldnt even consider us friends. So that leaves me two best friends. My best friends have friends who I don't really talk to that much and I feel kind awkward and left out when there are parties and theyre all talking together. I guess I just want to be friends with all of those people and especially that best friend who left me again.
And then there's volleyball. Volleyball is probably the root of the problem. You see, there re two teams at my school, the A team and the B team. I'm pretty sure you can guess what team I'm on. But anyways, my mom is the coach for my team, and shes not very experienced. She had to step up because nobody else would coach. And the A team has this lady who knows everything there is to know about volleyball. Sometimes I feel like a loser who doesn't know anything because my mom doesnt really teach us a lot of stuff. And then there's the best friend situation. Last year, my "best friend" (the one who left me, let's call her Racheal) was on the B team with me. Our team was terrible. And not to be mean, but Racheal wasn't really that great either. And then, she started hanging out with new people because we were in separate classes. Those people happened to be the star players on the A team. I knew Racheal wanted to he really good at volleyball, so she joined the same club team as the star players, now her new best friends. She's really good, and she knows it, and so of course this year she made the A team. When she found out she was jumping up and down. I tried to look happy for her, but on the outside it hurt. But right now, what really hurts is that, one of my close friends now is still good friends with Racheal. There's just too much going on and I can't take it anymore. And to top it all off, I have anxiety issues too. Please help me, and sorry it's so long, there's just a lot going on in my life right now.
I'm depressed, thinking about suicide? Help please?
Answers (7)
Its clear u have a lot on !
U may not like this........
But its part of 'growing up'. Don't take yr
life over this....
I think u need 2develop some more
hobbies + friends..By the way -people have
many friends + some friendships stay the
same . Some change.
Get 2 know yrself -yr dislikes,likes ,etc
What hobbies u like.. Whats yr best feature?
When did u last have a facial. or make-up
done? (Done at stores whrn trying new
make - up)
Talk 2someone if u think it helps...
possibly a counsellor ,dr etc
Treat yrself.....check out an Art Gallery or
what u think u may like. Try new things..
Don't 'overthink' things - but accept life has
its ups + downs.
I wish u well.
Don't even think about suicide.
I suggest you talk to someone about this, maybe and adult you trust, guidance counsellor, even a pet just so you don't bottle it up.
If you don't want to talk to someone, write out all your anger and then put the paper in the bin or kick it around. I have been in this situation before and I have learnt to just make new friends and try an think of positive thoughts. I know making new friends is hard but it's worth it in the end. New people can make you happy and you might even find someone who will love you for you. Also you could talk to your friend tell her how you feel she might understand.
I hope this helps because I bet you are very pretty and you probably make people happy.
I'm so sorry, sometime you.can feel like everything is put on you all at once and your in the dark. Nobody understands you and there's nothing leftt to do. Please don't do this, talk to a trusted friend, councilor, docter or parent. I know what it's like to have jerky friends, your amazing and that girl didn't deserve you if she couldn't.see that. She's just a trader. Your team isn't. Losers and you sound better than that.snobby team anyways. Shane that school for doing.that to you. Use your team as.an excuse to make your team the sweet, fun team. Please don't end your life. Your school, family and I will miss you deeply. I know I'm a stranger, but I'm here for you if you need it. If you would like to talk, just click on the button in my account that says ask private question. I'd be happy to help and talk. Lots of.love and please stay, it will get better! ;)