I have been in a realtionship for almost a year now.he loves me a lot.no one has ever loved me like this ever.we have been living together for six months now..we argue on a lot of things.once when things got out of hand he slapped me..he apologized profusely and I accepted.he promised he won't repeat it and told me a million times he was sorry and he loves me.but this same routine has been going on and on for months and it has become worse lately.every time I try to leave,he physically forces me to stay calls me a slut and many other things...and then cries and begs me to stay.he also tells me he'll die if I leave him.sometimes I jus don't care how much he loves me or what will happen to him,I just want to leave.but if I do leave,I just can't stay away...I feel guilty because I'm the one who starts the fight all the time but does that give him the rights to hit me?he always tells me nobody can put up with me and it's my fault that he hits me,and that I don't deserve him..I have lost my self confidence and self worth.. is the relationship worth it...it's taking me to both extremes..happy and heartbroken...can it be fixed...
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i don't think he knows how to treat you men that do this need to think of reasons why they abuse females he has warned you and took your self confidence and esteem as well he needs to be put in jail for laying his hands on you cause if a person loves you they wouldn't do theses things get out now why you have a chance do you have any kids if not it would make it easier to leave do you honestley start theses fights think about it if you have mom dad relatives make arrangements to stay with them till you get on your feel no woman should have to put up with men who think they need to put their hands on you it really doesn't sound like its your fault hes just using this as a excuse to do this abuse but i would let him alone and leave nothing to feel gulity about it will get to the point where he is gonna start being violent