So me and a girl talked for awhile. After then we kinda went separate ways for a bit. And she no longer likes me. I've waited just to see if maybe she'll come back to liking me, but she hasn't. I don't know what to do. I think I'm in love, but I don't want to be. I wanna get her out of my mind/life so everytime I see her in not bottled up with feelings like sorrow and worry and excitement and some I can't even explain. The worst part is, I have a bad habit of over thinking and pre thinking conversations in my head. In these conversations I convince myself she likes me back and then she craps on my heart when I try to talk to her. I'm just tired of pain and wanna know how to stop caring about her.
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I know how you feel, my friend. I've had this happen to me too, just on the opposite side of the spectrum. Like you, I would always think of previous conversations and always tell myself that soon he'd come back. It is quite painful, especially when they walk all over you. I don't know what your religion is, but I found that it was very comforting to read some Bible verses. I googled "endurance," "anxiety," and "perseverance" verses. If you're not religious, just try to think towards the future. It won't ever help to listen to music about break ups. I don't remember where I heard it, but there's one quote that always sticks in my head in times like this: "God gives the most difficult problems to the strongest people." Just know that it will all turn out in the end. I know that sounds clique, and you've probably heard it a million times, but it's true. I really do hope that you aren't in pain any longer. There will be another girl out there going through the same thing, your paths will cross, and that's when you'll know why this crap is happening now. I hope this gives you at least a little bit of encouragement, Colin.