Im a woman and Im 5 ft 7 and 165 pounds. Am I too fat to date ?

I don't believe you are too fat to date. I have a friend who weighs around as much as you do and she dates. there are bigger people out in the world that date guys. Don't be ashamed of yourself. If no one wants to date you cause their being judgy then try loose weight and see how that goes. But If you really want the love you've been waiting for then stuff yourself full with guys and dates!