Basically, me and my ex have been apart for around a month now. I live in Birmingham, and her in Cambridge. I know it was a long distance relationship, but I thought it worked. Then, at about month 5 in our relationship, someone said to me " Jess is cheating on you. " I believed them. The worst part was, they were a boy. After telling me a lesbian, and me having to accept that she was close with all her boy friends, I found out this. So someone who had her password on facebook showed me her inbox. The amount of times she'd cheated on me was unbelievable... But anyway, that's not the point. The fact is, I was with her for 7 months, I feel as if I was in love with her. I'm almost 14, and I have had a hard life if I'm honest, I have a hard time dealing with emotions. I need someone to talk to, which I have, but I mean as in a girlfriend, someone to love who deserves it. This is where I lead on to my problem; I don't know any lesbians or bisexual girls. I've known about 4, each of which I've dated, and one has moved to Canada because of her dad. If anyone knows any people? Sites, or even ways to find people who share the same sexual interest, please let me know? Thanks, oh and, it'd help if they were in Birmingham if you refer a person.