I am a 14 year old freshman in high school and Im pregnant. I don't know what to do?
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- 3+ months ago by Unknown7657
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Answers (5)
Well I ain't no therapist but you should probably think about what you wanna do with it, probably tell your parents too so they can support you and so you don't feel like you're alone. But remember, they can not force you to do an abortion, it's your own choice. I don't know about the father but you should choose that yourself, there isn't a big chance he's gonna be able to raise the baby with you but the parents can at least help financial if needed, good luck.
You need to tell your mom and then you need to see your doctor so they can confirm the pregnancy and tell how far along it is, so they can talk to you about your options. Generally you have three options- keep the child and raise it with family support, have an abortion or give it up for adoption. This is a difficult decision and you need to definitely discuss this with your family and probably the father of the child and his family. Good luck.
You don't have much choice now. You can tell your parents or wait until they notice. You can tell the father and see what he decides to do, and then maybe you will continue to see him and maybe not. Everything else about your life is almost entirely automatic for the next twenty years.
Clearly you don't or you would have gotten yourself on birth control before you spread your legs. Or you would have bought Plan B at the drug store and used it the next day.
You can keep it, put it up for adoption or have an abortion. Those are your only options. You'll be 32 when your kid goes off to college unless it has a kid then you'll be a grandmother.
You can call information or go online and find the nearest Planned Parenthood. They can explain all your options and how long you can wait if you choose abortion.
Sooner or later you are going to have to tell your parents or just wait intil they notice you barfing a lot or a big belly pushing your clothes out.
Good luck.