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Under these circumstances, they are often protected by Romeo and Juliet laws. Romeo and Juliet laws, allow for leniency in these circumstances. Often they protect against prosecution, but the authorities may still insist the adult ceases contact with the minor. However, if an adult begins a relationship with a minor after turning 18, it can be illegal, and that adult may face prosecution.
The age of consent differs from state to state, but usually that age requires both participants to be under the age of 18. 16 is already above the age of consent, for sexual contact.
You probably don't need to breakup, but be careful. Remember that the law is on her side, and if her parents want to push the issue, they may be able to.
The main concern here, is for her well being. These laws are in place, to protect minors, and they're good laws. One concern may be that at 16, an age difference of two or three years is a pretty big deal. An 18-year-old is an adult, may be living on their own, out of school, and beginning to work. The lifestyle of an 18-year-old is different than that of a 16-year-old. As you get older, age becomes less important, because your lifestyles are similar. They just don't want kids to grow-up too fast. That may seem odd now, but it makes more sense when you're older. Everyone just wants teenagers, especially girls, to finish school, not get pregnant, and get into a good college. These laws are also in place to ensure that girls are less likely to get pregnant as teenagers. They must be working to some degree, because teenage pregnancy rates are significantly down since the mid-1950s. Although, that is also due to availability and use of birth control and the Women's Rights Movement.
Just be careful and be prepared to breakup if necessary. Chances are the relationship wont last beyond high school anyway. Most don't.
Best of luck. :-)
