I've had a long-term relationship (15 years) with someone since we were teens, and then as time went on he married someone he met years later during a brief period we weren't close and had kids but he begged me back into his life (around the same time he married). If he moves out of state do you think it will improve his relationship or do you think it could make things worse? I mean we've tried space before and he always comes back to me. I don't understand why he can't accept his feelings for me; it seems like after this many years if they were changeable they would have changed by now.
If you had a same-sex love who moves away to improve his marriage, will it work?
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- 3+ months ago by curiousfr...
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I wish you had detailed his attraction to his wife. He seems to be attracted to you quite strongly. Since he's already promised himself to s.o. until he dies, work to find his attraction to you that should be to his wife.
>>>>>That's where you should be focusing your attention to kill that area of attraction. You must disconnect him from you. If he calls on you again, set him straight that you BOTH need to guard your own honor and not start or continue to destroy the current marriage.
His wife knows and we've been talking about it. He was with me before he was with his wife (though that doesn't make it right). Usually guys with these kinds of feelings don't lose them based on what I've read online especially not after almost 20 years. I hope things work out for him and her though.