(ex; you're ignorant, snob, dumb) anything to make you look bad and they talk about you even if they dont know you. I'd like to sound intelligent and not get all angry and overwhelmed
Id like to know how to respond to people who pretend things about you ?
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- 3+ months ago by luste
- Topics:
- people, sound, conversation, defense, talk, bad, bullying, intelligent
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Responses (3)
You can't "sound" intelligent, you either are or you aren't. If people are saying bad things about you then ignore them and do what you do best. If you want to improve yourself read more, google "books you must read before you die" and read them, take up a hobby, do something that puts you outside the crowd and above all ignore those small minded pricks that make you feel bad... for f*cks sake take some control of your life and better yourself, harsh words perhaps but no one can do it for you. YOU are the master of your ship.
The best way to deal with this stuff is to ignore it. If you know you're not what they say and just go on with your life. If they can't do something better with their lives than talk about you, than you can rest easy knowing that at least you have a better life than them.
Also, my favorite advice, "Kill em' with Kindness." It's hard for someone to bad mouth a really nice person. Most people who over hear them talking negatively will think that the bad mouth-er is the ignorant person as a result or even tell them that they are the ignorant snob. This takes time, but if you have the majority on your side, then you'll probably come out victorious.