Icky Situation?

Question

I have 2 guy friends I have (they're best friends with one another). I am - and always have been- attracted to one, but lately I have begun messaging the other. The one I am actually attracted too, I don't have his number so that is the only reason we don't speak but we flirt when we are together. The other friend - we have the same sense of humour (usually dirty and flirty) and we constantly make one another laugh = flirtationship. 

Now, however, the one I make laugh seems to think I like him beyond friendship. We both flirt -as is our right as two single people- but so do his friend and I -nothing too heavy just playful-. 

How do I let the guy down that I'm not attracted to without hurting his feelings - he is a really nice guy and our flirting may have gone too far. 

Be gentle guys, all parties have been flirting!

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i would say hey im not meaning to be mean but im not attracted to you im sorry just be straight up honest with him... ive had this happened to me before and he understood just tell him your feelings if he is a good friend he will understand. just keep your head up and be honest with him and you will make it

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I would personally mention how good of "FRIENDS" you are and how you like that you can have nice conversation's with him. Just indirectly tell him that He's a friend XD. If he still flirts too much, then tell him who you actually like. He'd get the "Oh, OK... I should probably back off a little then." Although it's possible he might feel a tad hurt at first, he'll grow to accept the facts and look for someone else. Hope this helps. : )

Icky Situation?

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