... she was a friend before this happened? she had a fling with my ex husband(Husband at the time) about 8 yrs ago which caused my divorce. I started a new relationship about two years ago and have a 10 month old baby with this person. we broke up 3 months ago. and he sent me a text. stating that to get back at me he was going to start seeing this person... when i returned to work! in fact he's in arelationship with this women... im very concerned for my son to be around this woman... All three of us work together... I'm very concerned about my sons well being. This women enjoys gossiping and knowing about my personal life with the intent of annoying me or harrasing. I don't care what they do.