He told me the other day I was his perfect girl and said he wasn't lying about it and he will be here no matter what after the abortion. I did what I though was best and got an abortion. Please do not judge me or start to yell at me for it. I already regret it. But back to the father. After I finished the medical abortion he told me I pushed him away and he lost feelings. Yes I understand I've been very moody but why if I'm his perfect girl why can he understand how hard this is.
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Unfortunately guys dont mean everything they say. This is even more true when they are young. We say things in order to generate a response or outcome not considering how it affects the other person. I can say this honestly as a guy who is now married with kids and those days long behind me. Sorry but he didnt mean it. His actions have shown you this. Good news is there is a guy out there who really will see you as the perfect girl you just need to meet him.
Suggest talking & praying with a good Baptist pastor who can help.Only God's forgiveness will give you peace.He is a great God who will help you.Your boyfriend needs the same.Through life we all make royal mistakes but we have a great God who understands and loves us in spite of our sins and offers forgiveness with our repenting attitude.
I'm not a teen anymore I just never fixed my name I'm 21