I live in washingtion state and have no idea what the law is. I am too young to have a kid and I'm thinking about the baby's future and I know adoption is better. The father of the baby doesn't want to try to work on the relationship but wants the baby. I don't know what to do and I'm scared he will stop me from making this decision.
I want to put my baby up for adoption but the father said he would fight. Can he stop me?
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- 3+ months ago by csn2011
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I just need to know if there is any way I can stop him from stoping me with my decision. I am 19 and he is only 18. We were together for almost a year, yeah I know not that long, but we were in a serious relationship and been through a lot. He doesn't want me to tell my parents until I have my frist ultrasound because he said anything can happen between then and now, like a miscarry, or that I am lying, and he doesn't want any drama caused by this until we know for sure that I am having the baby. I know for sure I am pregnant because I have two posivite pregnantcy test and a positive blood test. Even the doctor told me for sure I was pregnant. They also told me that stress from this break up is bad on the baby. I told him adoption is the better option but he told me he would fight to get the baby. I don't want to because I want us to be a family, but he just gave up on our relationship out of the blue when I thought everything was fine. Is there a way I can stop him from stoping me from putting it up for adoption? I just really need help!!
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well what u should do is ask him what would he do with the baby if he kept the baby when its born if you don't like his response you can put the baby up for adoption but i wouldn't be so fast with putting the baby up for adoption.if i were u i would talk to my parents and ask them for their opinion.if ur parents say u should keep it then u should try taking care of the baby for a few weeks or months and if its too much work and responsibility for u then u should give the baby up for adoption.last if the father of the baby wants to keep the baby then u could give it to him but i wouldnt suggest that.I hope this has helped you and good luck with the baby.Oh yeah this is from the perspective of a guy
Are you still trying to put your baby up for adoption? I'm trying to adopt a baby.
Tell Him It's Your Baby, And It's Your Choice. Sorry If I Didn't Help, I Hope It Did. Have A Wonderful Day! ~Wolfie
Thanks :) and I've talked to my grandma and she wants me to think about what i want to do then once i decide what i want to tell my parents.