We have been dating for 9 months now and have gotten extremely intemate with each other but never sex... we bring it up in conversations but when ever we try something it seems like neither of us have no idea what were doing even though hes not a virgin how do I get him to try something with me?
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If you BOTH don't have an idea of what you're doing, that means that he is also a virgin, but is ok, we usually lie about our virginity.. probably he is just scared and doesn't want to have sex without protection.. I suggest you to talk to him a tell him that you want him to be your first.. don't try to create a plan and everything, just you both get ready and sooner or later it'll happen.. and very important, use a condom, you don't want to get pregnant on your first time, so just buy a pack of condoms and save them in a handy place (like your purse or something).. and something I also suggest you to do, is to read about how to have sex without getting pregnant (condoms work for me, I'm sure they'll also work for you)..
Good luck ;)
Who told you dat his not a virgin, did he....?? You can simply start by watching sex movies 2gather and discussing about sex. Ladies shouldn't always wait for guys to start it first, you ladies too can also start by kissing. Kissing is the first stay, and it will leads to other play. I'm telling you this, dat a girl as once ask me, if i've ever had sex with a girl.