I cry myself to sleep everynight. I have no one there for me. I lose all my friends after I try so hard to please them. But that's just it. I'm teird of trying to please people who backstab me. Not even my familys thrre for me. I have been called everyname in the book,even by people who don't know me. I get made fun of everyday...its tiering! My parents don't help ether calling me a useless piece of shit. Also I'm over weight and gt made fun of EVERYDAY! I'm tierd of of it. So I spend most days in my room crying and I just vant stand it anymore! Advice please!?!!??!?
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Who cares what people say or think of you!!! Do what you love to do and live your life to the fullest. Being overweight can lead to depression so I would suggest working out, eat healthy and get a lot of sleep. I guarantee your social life will improve just by losing weight. Be yourself and be social.
Don't bother pleasing people who back stab you unless they're your true friends. People should be trying to please you.
Find something you like to do and do it, no matter what it is. Even if people laugh, ignore them and move on. A way to clear negative thoughts is through mediation. Research it and try it; it will definitely help! After if you just need more life in you, try something called "astral projection". It will be one of the greatest experiences you've ever experienced. Trust me on this, it is real as I have done it.
I hope you understand everything I told you. Enjoy life!
What you can do
1. Focus on your strengths. (2 Corinthians 11:6) Think of some talents or positive qualities that you possess.
2. Take a genuine interest in others. Start by showing interest in just a few people. “Simply asking others how they are doing or asking them about their work helps you to get to know them better,"
3. Cultivate “fellow feeling.” (1 Peter 3:8) Even if you don’t agree with another’s view, patiently allow that one to talk. Dwell on points that you agree on. If you feel you must express disagreement on some issue, do so in a mild and tactful way.
First of all , God loves us all. No matter if we are over weight, no matter what are faults, how we look, or what we do for a living, etc . My advice too you that helped me, was to Find a good church , that is uplifting.. Most churches have group meetings as well, l which you can focus on yourself, God too help you, and too make new friends. I know this is difficullt but once you do find a good spiritual church you'll be glad you did!!! If you need too try different churhes till you find the one that's right for you. P.s. please be aware there are many different churches and denominations out there. A church should only follow our Lord and savour , Jesus Christ !!!!!
hi umm heard about you body building and was wandering if you could give me some advice too. :)