I want to ask the girl I like out soon. After school, I will probably only see her at the bus stop talking to her friends. What should I say to be alone and ask her out?
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You should <i>probably</i> get used to talking to her more often and make more conversations BEFORE you ask her out. You have to make subtle, and I mean SUBTLE, hints that you like her. It sounds as though you don't talk to her on a regular basis, so establish that connection first. Start with conversation starters or something, find some reason to talk to her. If she initiates the contact first, great. Just talk to her. Eventually, she'll start divulging information to you, like her schedule or events in her life, and that's what you'll have to listen to. After that point, asking her out should be somewhat natural. I have this friend who asked a girl out out of the blue, and she said no to him, but she was nice about it. It was because he asked her out of the blue and he didn't establish any good connections with her.
To sum up: Ease your way into her life, then asking her out would be nothing. Just make sure she doesn't have a boyfriend, and make sure she doesn't prioritize something she does over you.
Would it work if I asked her out more casually then? What should I say to do this?