So at the start of the year my girlfriend decides to break up with me, not on any bad times between us. She explained she had alot of personal problems and needed to be on her own. I respected it but of course it hurt like hell. Though we weren't even together very long (about 3 months) I still had the best of hopes for us. There was always a gap between us, she never quite opened up or fully trusted me to be herself. The reason I'm asking for advice is because I feel I have gone past the "moving on" period, however at the same time I still feel like there's unfinished business there, and I can't stop thinking about her recently. I also can't determine aswell if she even really likes me, she has a closed off nature so she doesn't give much away. Would you just walk away? don't get me wrong I'm not putting my life on hold or anything, I just can't help feeling like maybe we could try again in the future. We still talk, however its me who makes contact and she hasn't ever really made contact with me. But again that's kind of her nature anyway really, besides understandably she probably tries to keep distance from me because she doesn't want to make it seem like there's an opening right now. Bottom line is should I just keep being friendly in the hopes that maybe in the future I might find an opportunity for us to date again. Or should I distance myself completely?
I want to ask my ex girlfriend out, but its complicated?
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- 3+ months ago by korokoro132
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- personal, break, girlfriend, year, problem, complicated, years, bad, time, break up
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I recommend sending/giving to her a playlist consisting of these songs:
Another now by Kate alexa
Way to the top by Kate alexa
Feel it to by Kate alexa
I believe by Indiana Evans
Your everything by Indiana Evans
I don't mind by Indiana Evans
Tell her that you can't stop thinking about her, about how beautiful she is in every way, tell her you will always be there for her and that she can trust and talk to you know matter what. Tell her you will always keep promises and that you still have feelings/love for her. If you don't want to ask her out faceto face, in your email/text with the playlist ask her out, I'm sure she still loves you, you sound amazing!!
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