I want an anime dad but which anime man is my dad??? help I need one?????

I'm not really sure what you're asking here.

If you're asking me to find you an anime dad I'd say that reality doesn't work that way.

However, if you want me to recommend an anime dad who was impressive, I'd go with Tatsuo Kusakabe, the father in Hayao Miyazaki's My Neighbour Totoro. He was cool.