I broke up with him about a month ago. And I was hurting pretty bad but was still so attached to him so when he said "I hope we still can be friends" of course I was like "yeah" (so stupid). I've tried to ignore him a couple times but he just ends up freaking out and thinking I'm dead or something happened to me. I feel bad then start to text him again. I do want him back but it doesn't seem like he wants me. He actually seems happier. I think because he can do whatever he wants but knows that he still has me there. It's annoying. How do I detach myself from him without him thinking I got hurt or something.
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I've had the same problem with my last ex, he though he had me there, and honesty one day, I was like look, "I understand you still want to be friends, but I think being friends in killing me inside, because I know we are not the same as we used to be, so I think we should stop talking, sorry."
I'll give that a try... The only thing is yes I still want to be with him and it's hard because I'm the one who broke up with him. I thought he would see my point and change but nope.