I have known her for about two years and have had feelings for her for a long time now. She has had a boyfriend nearly the whole time that we have know each other so i told my self that the next time she was single I would tell her how I felt. Well about a month ago she and her boyfriend broke up and I told her how I felt a few days ago. Well today me and her had a talk about me and her. She told me that she just cant be in a relationship right now. She said that it has nothing to do with how she feels about me but she has a son and wants to focus on him because her baby's dad is trying to no longer be a part of his sons life. He doesnt wanna pay child support or help out in any way. Her son is only two years old and he has a fit whenever she takes him anywhere so she just stays at home most of the time and focuses on him. She also said that it wouldnt be fair to me because she cant really focus on two people right now and doesnt want me to get hurt because she doesnt have time to hang out with me as much as I would want. She just seems to want to get her life together before doing anything. I told her that I am there for her when she is ready because my feelings arent gonna change. Im just worried because I know that a lot of girls use the I cant be in a relationship right now excuse and end up dating someone else. Im not really sure what to do. Should I give her space? Try and spend time with her when I can? Im just looking for suggestions on what I should do or say to really know how she feels.