i told my crush that I love her 3 moths ago but she stopped talkin to me ....I love her truly and I m not like other boys who leave the girl after sometimes...I love her and cannot even think of leaving her......I love her truly but she doesn't understand it......I have dreamed of spending my whole life wid her....and I know how to love ppl...I will keep her happy till I die....she first used to talk to me but nw she almost ignores me.......give me a simple solution he to get her....or even as a frnd ...coz if she even just talks to me I will keep our relationship as frnds and proceed further ...plzzzzz
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I was in the same position as this girl once. I met a guy, we got along well, but i never felt anything towards him, then i went awol on him, for 2 years. I never thought about hi, for the 2 years, but I started to remember him, and met him a couple of days later as i was walking home. Lucky Coincidence, and now, we've been in a relationship ever since :)
The only reasons i can think of, as to why she's been ignroing you, is that perhaps, she has her own issues going on right now in her life, and she's not ready for something serious, or she isnt interested in you and is distancing herself so that it doesnt hurt you and make her feel bad. She already has someone in secret or maybe, she's been with someone and they've treated her wrong, and she can't trust men as easily as she used to, she's numb to the good and bad men. Which was true in my case. She doesn't know you were a good guy,, and arnt like the rest. You just got to think of ways of getting it across to her that you are not one of them bad men. You gotta show her how much you'd treat her well, cause ill guarantee she'll be adicted to you after she knows how much of a caring and good guy you are. As you had spoken to her before and vic versa, speak to her again one day and ask hr whether she wants to do something togther. Even if its in a friendship group. take it slow to show her what she's missing
Ha and thank u for ur answer
yh i know its gonna be a real sharp painful moment if that does happen, but it will soon pass, and maybe you'll find someone who does deserve all your attention. either way, you cant continue to chase empty space, it'll mentally destroy you.if worse comes to worse, surround yourself with good people,and keep yourself busy, and sooner or later, you'll undestand it was for better
Talk with her and sort it out that what you said was something you shouldn't hide from her but if she don't have same feeling she could be friends again and nothing will change, everything would stay the same as it was before. Now coming to your side bro i have gone through this situation myself. And if you really love her you cannot behave just friends with her anymore even if you try. You will show more care and you will treat her like no one does. Its not in your hand. This may make her feel uncomfortable. Also if you stay friends with her and watch her life closely she will lead her normal life and may fall in love at some point with some one else. She may ignore you and will not give you attention as you give to her.You will get hurt in this process. Either some one loves you or they dont. You cant force anyone to fall in love with you. I would suggest move on with your life. It will take time and you will go through some days of hell but at last in few months everything will be back to normal and you will lead normal life.
tell her how you feel once more but don't act needy and if she doesn't change her attitude then she isn't worth doing anything more for her. she just is being a bit nasty and no matter what you should do she should still appreciate the fact you got up and told her and didn't cower in the corner
As a girl , I know what ia the case . You scared her or she feels guilty that she does not love you . Let it settle for a little and then when you are ready to tell her again , sound sentimental . A girl can fall if she sees how much effort you put in for just her . Dont pour out your heart but use your body language . I hope this goes well !
I understand but still I have 1 fear that if I go and just clear the matter and after clearing she says that we will be frnds only then........