Okay, so I am fifteen, and although I myself have never had any ACTUAL dating experience, I am pretty sure this guy likes me. We both share a Social Studies class as well as both of us being on the track team. This guy often will compliment me about how smart I am or on my doodles, and since we sit near eachotgher in class he sometimes takes my drawings to show off to other people, almost like a proud parent. He also laughs at any joking or sarcastic comment I say, even if he has heard it before. He also tries to be nice to me, for example the other day we were doing a group activity that involved a leader and a writer. He immediately calls being the leader and says that I should be the writer. I said that I would like to be the leader, and he almost immediately gives up the position. I also sometimes accidently brush past him, and oftentimes we will randomly make eye contact when I look up from an assignment, from which he will glance away. In addition to this, in track whenever I run past him he cheers for me, and although he will cheer for one or two of the girls behind me, when he does that he often seems flustered and mispronounces their name.
I have one problem though-- he is well known for being a player. I often see him flirt with other girls, although he never compliments them and is almost distant towards them, and he treats them more of as buddies than a love interest. I don't really like him too much (not quite just friends, but not a full blown crush), but I feel like I could have a relationship with him, but I'm hesitant to be bold because he IS a player. What do you think, and what is the best course of acrion I should take if he is a player afterall?
I think this guy likes me... but?
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- 3+ months ago by mustachio
- Topics:
- pretty, player, social, dating, experience, guys, high school, guy
Added 3+ months ago:
P.S. I already asked my friends on their opinion, and although when I told them the first part they said he totally liked me, after I told them who it was, their reactions were as follows:
-him? I never really noticed him much.
-He has a rock for a brain. Don't go out with him.
-Really? LOL!
So this makes me even more hesitant.
Answers (2)
I'm a 15 year girl also, and I think he likes you. But try flirting with him before you decide to date him or whatever it is you want. You could even straight up ask him, I know it seems embarrassing or you don't want to get hurt but, and if he doesn't he's not worth your time.
The best course of action honestly is to wait, and see where it goes, Don't rush this. What if you decided to be bold and ask him out only to be rejected.
My answer would seem really unfair though but here's what I say: Enjoy his company, enjoy his attention or whatever BUT don't focus on him, try befriending other guys too (note: DO NOT BE A PLAYER, don't date two men at once) but try being FRIENDS with other guys as well. Maybe you'd meet a person you are absolutely really into and he likes you back too (and maybe this one isn't a player, or doesn't have a rock for a brain?) and also if you befriend another guy you can know for sure if he likes you when he starts acting jealous (you'd be able to tell).
I guess my answer is, expand your options?