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Call,email,text, go to his house he must know.
I hav calle and text him but he ignors me and my ex said if he dont talk to me that he will find a way to get custedy of the baby when it is born and share it with me ,but I dont want stuf like that i want the babys dad to have and shear custedy
Cn u help answer my ques?
I have and I dont live with my parents I have nothing to do with them anymore. The people I live with is my best girl friend and we live with her older sister and Im 2 months. Its he might be moveing to another town if his mom gets costidy of him and i stay up a night thinkin of what it might be like if he aint there when the baby comes. But evser since he found out bout his parents fightin for custidy of him he dont want to talk to me.
You have a lot on your plate, being 13 doesn't help (just saying) there's going to be difficult times ahead. Have you been seeking help for any social agencies. Have you seen a Doctor ? The most important question how will you provide housing and food for your child ?
yea ny bffs sis took me when i found out so yea i hate school im thinkin bout give the baby up for adotion buti might drop out bc people at school call m bitch, funkin hoe,jack ass, dumb ass,ect.
People r always going to talk , you r none of those things. You're just a young lady who is caught up at the moment. It's not the end of the world
i know im none of those things but it is right here at christmas
Then let the emotions of the holidays pass And don't make any rash decisions. Dropping off from school may look like an easy fix But its only just that a fix, not a solution. Please do not let emotions cause you to make a decision that is going to hurt you and possibly you1r baby for the rest of your lives. You are stronger than you think! Hang in there!
yea and some of the girls got custom baby clos that say shit like my mom is a hoe,my mom is a ass, my mom is a bitch, my mom funcked to young but they dont funckin know what happen that night so idk what they talken bout bc some of them have babys too
Ignore them (I know it is hard but you can do it) ...they think that putting you down will make them feel better about themselves - NOT!!! You will get through this - no matter what you decide - remember you are a strong WOMAN! {{{{HUGS}}}}
Helen you are just what this young women needs, very encouraging words i pray she take them to heart.
yea and right now i have big samester exams and it so hard bc i cant study i have gotin to talk to my baby dady he said he is tryin every thing to stay with me and we want to have a big part in the babys life he dont want the baby to call my ex dady bc my ex has hits me when he is hight but i get use to it but the sameday i did it with my bgf i did it with my ex but it was safe but my ex didnt knoe=w it was safe bc he was high
you need to focus on your studies - Not doing well in school is just going to hurt you and your babies future. You can't count on you baby daddy - what if something goes wrong? You need to be able to stand on your own two feet and an education will allow you to do that! Please go study and make yourself proud by doing well in school.
well he said his mom dose like me a lil but i dont need/want to move but she is a 7th grade teacher and the skool she teaches at has girls like me bu i just want and want my baby dady but i need to stay here were i live but my ex is tryin to get custidy of my baby and it aint even born
Please listen to Helen,
ok so what i do now go punch in the stumech bc someone doged and i got hit instead but they knew but they didnt stop so they wouldnt hit me but (they did get punched back ) but who would do that
First of all your ex and his family can not TRY and get custody of the baby until his parenthood has been determined and that requires a DNA test to make sure he is the Daddy. Until then focus on yourself and your baby's future.
ok but still i kind do "love my ex" so what do i do then i dont "love" my baby dady like "love" my ex i am just so messed up and high
you are getting high while you are pregnant??? do you want your child to be born an addict? Unless you make some real changes and start living for your child nothing I can say will help. It is time for you to pull yourself out of this and do what is right for your child! You have given up the right to be selfish the moment you became pregnant!!!
it was bc i was funkin confused and i was with my ex talkin and his friend didnt know and we all got high but i soon relized what i done and i went to the dr. and they said that thhings were ok
Did u tell your Dr. you were getting high, what was drug of choice while getting high.
yea and idk i was with my ex (i sitll love him)
Gini..let ur parents knw,they wunt kil u
How are you doing now ?
I feel like shit and my bf parents are leting me move in when the baby comes but till then they keep buging me if im goin to give my baby up for addoption or am i goin to keep it but they wont let me talk or give me space what do i do i love them but idk what to do
To be very honest - If I were 13 and pregnant I would either have had an abortion or given the baby up for adoption. At 13 you and your baby daddy can not provide for the baby, you can barely provide for yourself - You are still a baby. There are so many couples out there that would be thrilled to give your baby a wonderful life and let you still be part of it. Give yourself and your baby a wonderful life! {{{hugs}}}}} Think about it please.
My baby dady and I have desided to give our baby girl up for adoption. I hope that is the best idea. His mom said if we cant find a family to adopt her that she would adopt her so we can be a BIG part of her life. I want to be in her life but I cant bare to be in this position. What do I do I am due in two mouths?????????? I need alot of HELP right now.
Well then you insist on an out side adoption - very simple. That way you do not have to be in this painful position.
Well some of the people at school found out what our desition is and are calling us bad parents but I know that we are doing the best thing for our kid i do want to be abel to see my kid some times and but i dont know what to do
Ignore the ignorant people at school - they are not in your shoes!
YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When you apply for adoption you simply request potential parents that will be open to visitations and communication about your baby!! You will be surprised how many will be more than OK with that!
I know I am I do have alot of support at school but its just my friends that know what im goin throught so yea
i am 13 but i dont know if he will listen he hasn't talked to me for a week or two so how do that if he is ignoring me???????????????????