so u c , i ask other web sites like yahoo answer and they all say that i should tell my friends that i am but noon of them would understand , it would get arround school and my life would be a hell hole and then there r my parents , and they allways have to slip in that it's ok to be les but i'm too scared to tell them ..... P.S. i'm 13
I think I'm les?
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- 3+ months ago by emolovefr...
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- friends, lesbian, answer, parents
Answers (3)
hello emolovefrog,
I understand that you got a frustrated period in you life because you probaly think its strange that your are in love with girls and its difficult to say it to friends because you young .. a lot of you friends will not understand it but it doesnt mean you need to shame for it ... if i was you i will keep it for myself till i'm old enough and not affraid about it anymore ..its all depends of yourself , how you feel about it ... maybe you can tell it to your best friend .
i hope i help you a lil bit and sorry for my bad english
I have lots of experience with lesbian life. My sister, aunts, and mom are all lesbians. Lots of girls go through a point in time when they think they are lesbian. The thing is sometimes its a phase and others it a lifetime thing. I would try to figure that out first. Next I would probably talk to a school councilor then talk to your parents. I know its scary but if they love you they will understand. Just tell them that you have thought it through and you want them to accept you for who you are. Counciling is also a very good thing. I go to it, and so does my sister who is a trans gender meaning she wants to be a boy. It is completly normal. Good Luck to you and your journey through life!