My boyfriend got mad I was talking to a guy. He claimed I was "flirting" after snooping in my messages on social media. So it made me think, he never gets jealous...what is he hiding? On his Phone I found a note he wrote. It was a "be me..." story you post on the site 4chan* It was him admitting he's in love with his best friend. They had previously dated for a week. Long ago. I had questioned him about it when we first started dating and he denied it. We've been dating for 3 years and they have been friends for 4ish. He tried to tell me that he meant as a sister when i confronted him. If he did then why did he write IN LOVE? I need advice. I need to know what to say. even if he does love her she is in a long term relationship and in love with her boyfriend if that matters any. I know she isnt interested and she is my friend. & his best friend. HELP ME!! (:
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That's a hard situation for you, just sit him down and ask him about it again. If he wrote it down, chances are it's true. Guys find it hard to say what they feel. But ask him about it calmly tell him your not mad just confused. And find out for yourself if he's in love with you and loves you. Because he should, no other girl should be on his mind except you. At least this way you'll know the truth and if you're wasting your time. It's hard but you need to do it for you. All the best. x
I think that you should confront him as soon as possible, because I'm assuming if he wrote that about his friend especially using the words "in love" it is true. You've already spent 3 years with this guy, and he has been able to hide that he is in love with someone else? If I were you that would make me really uncomfortble that he could manipulate his feelings like that. If he does admit to it, I don't think you should waste anymore time with somebody who lies like that to you. Everybody deserves better. Good luck, this is a rough situation.