I feel so in love with my boyfriend right now... I mean, I trust him so much, we've had sex. It takes a LOT of trust for me to have sex with someone. Anyway, the problem lies with another guy whom I've liked for several years now, but only seems to want me for my body. You know that feeling when you like someone so much that you'll risk not expressing that just to spend time with them instead of potentially ruining the small sliver of a possible friendship with them by telling them? That's me right now. :/
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Yeah, it's best to figure out what you want first. Do you want the guy who you love, whao (I assume) feels the same way, or the guy who's in love with you body, and not the person inside? When you can answer those questions, then think about what each guy would think, especially your boyfriend. It would hurt him a lot. maybe discuss it with him, as it would be unwise to keep it away from him.
That is a rough time. Are you willing to risk your relationship with your boyfriend for a (most likely) one time thing with this guy who only wants you for your body? If he only wants you for your body you should not be giving him that satisfication. If he wants a relationship with you then thats a differnet story. However, do what makes you happy but I had the same exact experience and wasted it on the guy that only wanted me for my body and it hurt me and i regret that decision so much. But youre a big person, you do whatever you want.
Thank you. :) It's just that both of them seem to send mixed signals, but you're right.I need to think about this. :3