so there is this guy, and we were neighbors and would hang out all the time. but then I moved and we stopped talking and everytime i asked him if he wanted to hang out, he never responded. the last time i asked him, i said "okay this is rediculous and this is the last time i will ask you to hang out."......so he didnt respond :( and about 3 months later (tonight) he chats with me on my email saying "hey would you like to listen and kind of rate this song of mine?" and i said "sure" and he sent it but i couldnt listen to it cuz of the file type or something. then we went back and forth in an awkward convorsation. i told him it was awkward and he agreed with me. then i partially told him something and he asked me why i didnt finish and i said "because its personal and i dont know you that well anymore" he logged off. i sent him a message after he logged off saying "okay thanks. i feel so stupid i have been trying to be ur friend but you keep rejecting me so im done. dont ever try talking to me again. ever." i feel soo stupid now...i was mad and that was too dramatic...should i just let it go? or what? im so stupid :/
I ruined a friendship?!?
Added 3+ months ago:
and i just checked my email : he said "wow thanks my mom told me to get off but whatever your choice :(" and i said "im just sick of it in general."
idk what or why i did this but i still want to be his friend and idk why i did all that.. ugh!!!!
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I get it, he's mad at himself, and this is his way of showing it by taking it out on you and trying to get into YOUR life and mess YOU up because his mom may have been saying bad news (divorce,death?). Either way he's a jerk you have to confront him like
"I'm not a mean person and i don't like to be but your seriously being really rude!
And what did I ever do to you?, No. Your not ruining my life if thats your goal. And I'm sorry if your just mad because YOUR life is bad......but GET OVER YOURSELF"
something like that.hope that helped . good luck !:)
I get it, he's mad at himself, and this is his way of showing it by taking it out on you and trying to get into YOUR life and mess YOU up because his mom may have been saying bad news (divorce,death?). Either way he's a jerk you have to confront him like
"I'm not a mean person and i don't like to be but your seriously being really rude!
And what did I ever do to you?, No. Your not ruining my life if thats your goal. And I'm sorry if your just mad because YOUR life is bad......but GET OVER YOURSELF"
something like that.hope that helped . good luck !:)