This guy and me have a lot in common and I can see us together.We have so much in common.I had a deep conversation with him.And I think he may feel the same way about me.But my close friend who introduced us is asking me to back off or forget about him.She starts bad-mouthing him and telling me he Isn't right for me.Other common friends feel that she's possessive of him and they thought those two were going around.When I asked her if she likes him she said No so many times.The guy also says that he doesn't really tell my close friend anything because she thrives on gossip.What do I do?Should I back off?Because I don't want things to get messy with me and my friend.