... hair was so nappy and unmanagable that i had to get a relaxer. I was fine with it up until about a year ago . I WANT A CHANGE . I want HEALTHY hair . My hair is so thin and brittle now . The longest i've went without a relaxer is about 3 months and thats because i keep my hair in mostly rope twists(sengalese twists) . I wanna embrase my natural hair . I feel like if it was meant for me to have bone straight hair, i'd have it naturally . I've been doing research for about 6 months about how to care for my natural hair and transitioning . I dont want to big chop ! I want to transition for about 6 months then cut my relaxed ends off . I asked my mother but she said no because its "nappy" and a "hot mess" and "unmanagable" ... I really want to do this ! PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME :'(
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your problem is not about your hair, but your self confidence. u do not have strong self confidence, therefore you keep blaming ur hair. actually, even if u have nice hair, it does not guarantee u will be happier or suddenly become princess. God loves you, Jesus God will helps you. Read the bible, get wisdom, learn to love your self no matter how and what happen to your body and hair. eat healthy good, eat more fruits and vitamin A, C and E. then u will get better hair. do not eat too much of spicy food, junk food, deep fry food. not good.