Like most girls, I have a crush. A crush that I'm crazy about. I know he doesn't like me, I don't even think he likes me as a friend. And I've tried to "move on" from him but I truly can't. Recently, he's been flirting with my best friend, literally my closest friend. He's been saying things to her that I wish he would say to me. The worst part is, my friend doesn't even know I like him, so she's flirting back. I wanted his attention so I recently became anorexic to try and impress him. I've become skinnier and nothing caught his eye. Its making me hate myself, all I want to do is cry. Please, please someone give me advice. And don't suggest "move on" because I well and truly can't.
Thank you,
I really need advice, I'm breaking apart?
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- 3+ months ago by dodo142
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- girl, friend, crazy, apart, advice, breaking, girls, friends, crush
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well first you need to take a better look at the situation do you want to see him with your friend if not then you would have to think that being anorexic would cause all kinds of problems for your health and then some you don't want to do that for anybody two you wouldn't be a true friend if you didn't say how you feel i'm sure that she would tell you how she feels i would tell her instead of keeping it from her i'm thinking that if she really is your friend it would be the right thing to do the ball is in your court its up to you what you do with it
Alright I can relate personally to this question, I had the same thing happen to me when I was younger. Though I never turned to Anorexia. I know that for you your heart is shattered, watching that happen can be devastating. I suggest telling your friend that you have a crush on the boy, though saying this might cause a fight between you and her. He does not like you he has made that clear, he flirts in front of you with others even knowing your feelings towards him. I know it will be hard to let go, and every time you see him your heart will skip a beat, your tummy will flutter, your brain will get stupid. You will do everything to make him notice you. Let me tell you no matter how hard you try he wont ever notice you not now, not in a couple years. Their is nothing for you with this boy, for your own good find someone else. I know it seems impossible but it isn't trust me I had these feelings for boys time and time again, and each time I learned to move on. I will tell you how to do it. First when you start to think about him occupy your mind with something else other then him. When you see him and all those feelings come to you imagine a different boy, someone even more handsome hugging you, imagine the boy that you have a crush on as no good bully, picture him beating someone up, hurting you. I am not suggesting to start hating him but if you do this eventually your feelings for him will change. Start picturing your life better without him. I know it is hard it will take months before it works but it will work. You have to move on.