i have been single for a while now, i have been in three relationships, long term in which all have cheated on me. i have recently lost a lot of weight and have several men asking me out, a few of them i meet at first and i want nothing more then attention from them, then as soon as i get it , i am weirded out.. the more they want me the more i pull away... theres one guy i like but i dont feel good enough for him, i cant understand why i pull away when a guy shows interest, or why i can only get the guys i dont want....