Okay here's the situation: I'm bald. I experiencing a rare condition that I lose my hair. I wear a wig so I could look like I have hair. There's this one guy I really liked and it turns out that he really liked me too. He asked me out and been dating for 3 years and going strong but everyday I afraid that he'd find out my secret and had come to the point of being paranoid about my life. One day I took it off when I was in sitting couch so could fix it. So little did I know, he was just behind the door trying to surprise me. He did surprised me but he more surprised than me. He was in state of total shock. I don't know what to do. I love him but I don't want to lose him. What am I suppose to do.
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Nothing you can do now, he has to get used to it or if he can't, which would be really really dumb, he has to get lost. You'd be better off without him if he couldn't get over it anyway and you know why, someone who only likes you for your looks is not someone you want to spend any time around, they are shallow,w eakminded individuals with nothing to recommend them.
The best thing to do is be honest. Tell him what the situation is and why you have been wearing wigs. If he can't understand that even after you've explained it then he isn't the one for you, because the one for you would tell you that your beautiful whether you do or don't have a wig on.
Good luck!