I was out with my fiancée and some of our friends last Friday night. We went to a bar out of town, and were drinking very heavily. Especially me. One of my fiancées friends who I think is as sweet as can be, but not attractive whatsoever was in our party. I had only met her that night. She is also my senior by 10 years(mid forties). As we were leaving I drunkenly gave her a hug and a peck on the lips. It happened before I knew it. I'm not attracted to this woman at all, and I know being drunk is not an excuse!! I don't know why the hell I did it. It's been a week and I feel guilty as hell. It was harmless and I have no attraction to this woman at all. Should I tell my loving and beautiful fiancée about this. I know it will hurt her bad and I doubt she'll trust me drinking ever again. What should I do????
I pecked a female friend on the lips. Should I tell my fiancee?
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- 3+ months ago by reyncity75
- Topics:
- lips, night, female, bar, friend, town, drinking, friday, friends
Added 3+ months ago:
What I'm most concerned about is hurting her, and that she'll leave me. I can't live without her. My life would feel worthless if she were gone.
Responses (2)
You know her best, personally I think she'll probably laugh it off and I can't imagine you getting into more trouble for NOT telling her than telling her and getting it out in the open. As you said it was accidental, innocent and in no way were you on the pull. It would seriously help your case if one of her friends saw you do it and could back you up but I really really can't see you getting into any serious trouble over it. Be prepared for a lot of nights in drinking lemonade though m8...
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Thanks Milander. I think I'll just keep silent on this one.