Theres a girl i really really like and i need to know if she is interested in me, i wanna ask her out or for her to b my gf, but my parents r strict about tht stuff so how can i do this :/ im 15 yr old high school guy, aparently im rlly sweet and nice and have nice hazel eyes, and am good looking, ( just going on wat girls have said lol) The girl i like calls me sweet all the time and has said theres not much guys like me, she goes awwww and puts lots of love hearts, and wen i say hi to her she always puts or arms out for a hug, BUT the thing im worried about is tht im quite shy around girls and sometimes dunno wat to say, like wat do i say after we ask each other how we r and aftr we said good and all tht? Im just worried shes losing interest in me coz i dnt talk to her enough, hahaha, sounds retarded i know, its complixated puppy lov, HAHAHA anyway girls answer will b much apreciated, THANK YOU :)
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hmmm... well i dont know your parents so i cant help with them being strict, but...1 does she treat you different than normal friends? 2 does she get really close to you when you talk? 3 does she touch you alot, if you answerd yes to any of those, she likes you. you could try talking to other girls to gain confidence, but don't make her jealous §§§ hope i helped
Judging from everything you said, it doesn't seem like you have much to worry about except your parents being strict.
You mentioned, "the thing im worried about is tht im quite shy around girls and sometimes dunno wat to say, like wat do i say after we ask each other how we r and aftr we said good and all tht?"
Best to just go with the flow. Let it come naturally. Don't try to prepare sentences and memorize what to say. You'll just end up looking stupid. Remember: You're not auditioning for a movie role, you're talking to a person. Another human being, just like you.
I can't tell you exactly what to say after greeting each other because like I said, let it come to you. Talk to her like you talk to your friends or family. Lots of other guys have this problem where they think too much of what to say, so they end up ruining the entire conversation.
I know you feel dumb not knowing what to do, but that's normal. You just have to overcome this yourself. If it doesn't work out, at least you learned something.
As for your parents being strict, I have no idea how to help you with that.
If you make her your girlfriend, it'll have to be a secret, and your parents might still find out, but if you don't make her your girlfriend, someone else might get her... So I don't know... Sorry.
Good luck!
-Tyger
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Thankyou, good answer :) u did help
OMG, all those r yess, haha , thnks for the answer