Person T & person B have been in a relationship since December2013.

B loves Halloween & always gets really into it. T knows this & agrees to dress up with B Halloween 2014, so B buys T a costume. Halloween night comes around & T is late getting to the event B wanted to go to & T is also complaining about wearing the costume. They take pictures & hangout for a little bit. The whole time T has a bad attitude. They then leave to go to a local bar to see a local band. Person B has never been IDed at this bar before, nor have they been IDed at any bar in that entire County. The woman at the door is being extremely ignorant & irritating about the whole situation. She won't let them in. T doesn't understand why the hell B wouldn't have brought their ID to a bar. B yells that they have never been IDed at that bar before, but T still thinks that is stupid. The bartender eventually tells the woman at the door that she know B & T and they can go in, so B walks in. Seconds later, the lady at the door runs up behind, grabs their arm, & says there's a cover to pay. B yells that they already told the woman T was paying the cover & T was clearly standing there waiting to pay it now. So the woman turns around to get it & B starts drinking a lot, quickly. The only thing T said to B once they got in the bar is that they didn't understand why B didn't bring their ID. B says they don't want to talk to T. B gets extremely wasted & tells T that they hate them & don't want to talk to them. At one point, B starts talking to one of the members of the band after the show & even kisses that band member. B & T don't talk at all the next day, but they eventually resolve the problem.

T had a drug problem at the beginning of the relationship & told B they quit. B was weary of this though. B told T to not just lie about doing drugs, but also said they would not be with T if they continued to do them. B often asked T if they were lying & T got irritated & said no. Two months went by of T saying they had really quit, but then one day they tell B that they were lying & had still been doing drugs. They said they were really done now though.

The issue now is that T keeps bringing up the event from Halloween. B is still weary of whether or not T really quit doing drugs & says they can not trust T. T says they can not trust B because of what happened on Halloween. B claims they were just drunk & trying to make T made because they had ruined Halloween. T says it was still cheating & they can not trust that B will not do it again.

Do you think that these two events even compare? Which do you think is worse?