I'm 14 and it's been two weeks since I confessed my undying love to my now 20 year old cousin brother. He said he's not serious with anyone and that he'll be with me just to make me happy. I asked him if he liked me and he said yes. I already knew he had another girlfriend, he says that he doesn't like her but is only with her because she loves him (they don't have a physical relationship).
This is my first ever relationship and we made out 2 times and I kinda dry humped him causing him to cum. I really am in love with him, and it kills me to know that he isn't serious and I feel like I'm forcing him to be with me but he says that he likes me and that I'm not forcing him to do anything. I asked him to leave his other girlfriend a few times, today I asked him to leave her again which made him really angry and he was saying that I'm wierd and what's the matter with me etc... He doesn't understand that I feel worthless like this. I have some anxiety and depressive disorders and I tend to think about alot of stuff.. I really love him. I really do, but I don't say that to him cuz he won't say " i love you too" and that'll hurt me..
We have plans to makeout and do some other indecent stuff on Thursday.. He says that I can do what I want with him and he can do the same. I don't mind. I don't. But he doesn't love me. And I love him really bad, I've been keeping my feelings about him to myself for more than 3 years now. I tried to forget him but I can't. And now we're finally together and this is how it is.. I hate to think that I am giving up my body to someone who doesn't even love me.. But I love him so much and I can't say no to him. If he loved me I'd have no problem. And the thing that hurts me the most is that he has another girlfriend and he won't leave her.. I'm not enough for him?.. Please help me and tell me what I should do. I can't talk about this with anyone. Tell me what you'd do in this situation.
Thanks for your help.
I need help. This relationship is not what I asked for. What should I do?
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- 3+ months ago by Sora no t...
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- love, year, cousin, relationship, old, years, relationships
Responses (5)
well it doesn't really make much sense to make out with him why he has a girlfriend not much sense in that i'm not understanding why he would still be with her if he doesn't care about her mabe hes afriad of hurting her or something thats what i'm getting you could say that i can't make out with you when your with somebody else it just isn't right but i don't know how you would handle such a thing or how he would handle if you took a stand on such a mixed up issue you have to do what you think is right
Sounds to me he likes the idea of having a virgin perhaps.
I wouldn't give my self to anyone who:
a) Is already giving attention to someone else
b) Is not working damn hard to get close to me every minuet of every day.
If I was you I would forget about him and who knows when your older he might become your number one! You still got your whole life to fall in love and out of love with people. Up to you though. Never feel you HAVE to do anything.
From my point of view (which of course you don't have to care one bit about) it sounds like a bad idea.
You should stop seeing him. I think you will get hurt more and more everyday knowing that this boy is still together with his girlfriend. You are a young lady, you have an awesome future and there are too much things in this world that is more beautiful than this relationship. Don't waste your time. As a twentysomehing I recommend you to be more independent and know how to say ''no" every time you don't want to do something with him. Always remember, a good and healthy relationship consists of two people being in love together. If only one of them is falling for another person, it's not a relationship. Also please note that you shouldn't ask "Am I not enough for him?" because no man deserves to hear that question comes from a woman who loves her.
Not incest. Not in my country, nor does it go against my beliefs. You can't argue with that.