First of all I'm 16 years old. Second, my sister and I are surviving victims of child abuse and neglect from both our parents.
My grandmother, who has been doing all she can with our grandfather to heal my sister and my wounds. But a lot has been going on between our grandparents and their kids which includes our mom. Lately my grandparents have been being blamed for everything by their own children. My uncle (one of my grandparent's sons) called and told his mother that it was her fault that his wife and him don't have a relationship with us and that it's her fault that his wife and him hate us. Our grandparents have done all they could to give their children the best and this is what they get in return? I've watched my grandmother cry everyday and hate herself because of our uncle. I want to help my grandparents and tell my uncle that what he's doing is unethical and that he has no excuse to be doing this. I want to tell him that if anyone should be angry at their parents it should be my sister and I. But I'm not sure how to go about this without having bad consequences fallow. What would you do if you were me?