I'm dating this girl and I think my friend has a crush on her but he doesn't know we r dating... Today while I was sitting besides him during my lecture I realized I had a crush on him. He acts kind of in a "bi" way... I don't know what to do now I like the girl I'm dating but my feeling for him is stronger... Btw I'm bisexual and these two don't know :( I'm so confused I need some ideas of what to do so please help me !!!
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Hi. Whether the guy you like is bi or not when you picture your perfect relationship and it's with him, you're dating the wrong person. Your relationship won't last long if you don't want to be with her. If this guy is really your friend, that won't change if he knows your bi. I had a friend in this exact same situation. She told the girl. Even though the girl told her she was straight, it allowed her to move on and find someone else. You need to be honest with your friends. If they are truly your friends, they won't care. If they do, you deserve better. If you tell the guy and he's straight, it may be awkward for a while but that will heal, you'll find someone else, and it will relieve a lot of stress. If he's bi and doesn't like you, you just aren't his type. If he's bi and likes you, congratulations. Tell the girl you like someone else -- a guy -- and she deserves better. She'll understand. Tell the guy you like him, and whether he likes you back or not, the stress of this will finally evaporate. Of course, this is just an opinion. Good luck!