I work as a lifeguard over summer at a club and I have a crush on one of my coworkers. I only see her at work so we don't talk much but we do talk we seem to get along well. I also think she might also be attracted to me but I'm not sure if she's just nice to everyone. I have her number but that is only because my job hands out everyones number that works there incase we need to get ahold of someone to cover one of our shifts, so it doesn't feel right to start texting her since I've never really asked for it. How do I talk to her more? Should i text her? Ask her out the next time I see her which might not be for a while? Or do something else? Im 19 and Im not 100% sure how old she is but Im pretty sure she's 18 or 17. I think she just graduated high school this year.
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One thing you can do is add her on Facebook. If she accepts your friend request then start with hi how have you been. Women are very simple, we don't want you to rush us right away but we want to feel like our time with you means something. If you don't know what her last name is there is a way to look up her facebook by her phone number. You can sync you contacts list with facebook and it will find her. I wouldn't text her since its a work phone situation but if you see her next time just start any random conversation and maybe after a few minuets of conversation as her if she wants to hand out sometime after work. Hope this helps!
Honestly I would just ask her out the worst that could happen is that she says no but if you don't ask her out she might get another bf or she might loose intrist and you will end up regretting not asking her out.
Did you check her fb status to see if she ha a boyfriend right now? If there is no boyfriend...Swipe some smiles at her and make sure she notices before looking away. Do that a few times and then start to do the lock gazes where you wait to see her reaction. It will most likely tell you what you need to know. I really hope this helped! And I hope you have a great day!
You should ask her out I mean if you wait to long she might loose interest. When you ask a girl out you want to wait a little bit get to know her. But don't wait so long that she looses interest
I forgot to mention that we are already friends on Facebook. I don't remember when it happened.