Okay so my uncle and his son are vacationing down here (in Florida) from Iowa and are staying in my house. And my mom doesn't understand that I need my personal space (I'm 14). my room was supposedly going to be the "guest room" while they're down here. and keep in mind I have an 11 year old sister that hasen't hit puberty or doesn't do anything to get ready in the morning. So getting to the point, I'm alittle pissed off because I feel like that is invading my private space and the fact that my mom just let's them stay in my room with my personal things sprawled all over, my makeup all out and stuff just irritates me and she didn't even talk to me about it or even ask if it was fine with me. And I'm at my dads so I have like no say in this or anything. I texted my mom asking her if they can stay in my sisters room, and she said they were already in my room for the night. I'm a girl so it's awkward when there is a man in my room I mean you never know.. Another problem is if I take a shower at night or want to wake up really early to do my makeup or my hair or get ready for the day, my uncle locks the door and I can't go in my own room to get the things I need and I can't wait until they wake up.. I'll be gone most days because of Volleyball. I don't know if you will understand where I'm coming from and I know I'm being a little selfish and bitchy but I just don't like the idea of people invading my space.. And I'm going to have to sleep on the couch until they leave. And I have back problems (scoliosis) and I'll just be a grumpy mess every morning and I hate that feeling. Anyway their stuff is in my room, when they could just stay in my little sisters room .. I just don't know what to do. Should I talk to my mom about it and I don't wanna be rude and tell them to get out . Please help!
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how long are they staying for that would be the number one thing i would ask then i would talk to mom to get your stuff the night before so you have if that doesn't work you might try and get your things you need to have a chance to get your things that would be a good idea so you don't disturb your uncle till you can talk to your mom just ask her if theres anything else that can be done