the question is about my best friend who met a guy and she is deeply in love with him, but she will leave country in one month and he is begging her not to go.. she got a scholarship to study in another country and she dont have intetion to come back for 4 years,thats a bit long period not seeing a BF..so she asked me for help, and I didnt know what to say..that scholarship and university is her dream and I think she is afraid of losing it, but that guy is something special too and now she is confused and standing between these two big decision in her life...help?
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I will advice her to go for her university because if she losses it, she may not have the opportunity again and remember, time waits for no man.As for the guy she loves? true love never dies; this is actually the time to know if they are made for each other or not. If they are made for each other, no matter how long she stays in another country, they will still find each other. On the other hand, you never can tell if what they share is real love or lust; it may start fading and who knows, the guy starts misbehaving and before you know it, they will break up and then she will be frustrated and start regrating her actions when its too late. She has to think very well before taking any decision.
tell your best friend to be yourself and don't give up to the guy,,
because i didn't to show,. and advice to you please care of your self.
Go to school, if you don't go you will have a life time of what if's. Once you get that degree no one can take it from you, love can / do leave you.