... could become attracted to him....but I am still almost disgusted with him. I hate watching him eat even and its hard to be in bed with him. I still love him, I am just not attracted to him. Is this normal? We have only been married a year. We want to have kids but I sometimes think twice because I dont want them to be obese too. Am I just being shallow? I dont know what to do
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be honest with him, tell him his weight is getting alittle out of control and you will worke out with him. he needs motavation. if you married him because you love him and care for him thats great! but also you should love the person from the inside not the outside. honesty is the key to every relationshiph
I try and tell him but he gets really defensive so I avoid it mostly because I dont want to hurt his feelings. He needs to lose weight for his health mostly though, so I will try to focus on that when talking to him. Thank you for your response, you are very correct about being honest.
try to get to the root of what made him stop caring about his weight. Most times when someone starts to get over weight, something happened and he's holding it in and just finding food for comfort. But just continue to love him and showing that you love him and maybe you can get to the reason it started then yall can handle it together
thank you for your help!
im so sorry!!! i meant to give you a thumbs up but my hands slipped. sorry!! great answer by the way. :)